Philemon 1:17 - Coke's Commentary on the Holy Bible

If thou count me therefore a partner,— "If, therefore, thou esteemest me as a friend and companion in Christ." L'Enfant translates it, "I conjure thee, therefore, by all that is common between us, receive him as myself." But the main thought which prevailed in the apostle's mind, seems to have been the participation they both had in the blessings of the gospel, which was the clearer bond of their friendship. The apostle petitions like one quite in earnest. See on Philemon 1:12. Christian friendship is not like the friendships of this world, which are often confederacies in vice,orleagues in pleasure: it is founded on truth, holiness, piety, and extensive virtue, and is therefore the warmest, sincerest, and most durable friendship; not inconsistent, but accompanied with benevolence to all mankind.