Proverbs 5:1-14 - The Biblical Illustrator

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My son, attend unto my wisdom.

Caution against sexual sins

The scope of the passage is a warning against seventh-commandment sins, which youth is so prone to, the temptations to which are so violent, the examples of which are so many, and which, where admitted, are so destructive to all the seeds of virtue in the soul. We are warned--

I. That we do not listen to the charms of this sin.

1. How fatal the consequences will be! The terrors of conscience. The torments of hell.

2. How false the charms are! The design is to keep them from choosing the path of life, to prevent them from being religious. In order thereunto, to keep them from pondering the path of life.

II. That we do not approach the borders of sin. The caution is very pressing.

1. We ought to have a very great dread and detestation of the sin.

2. We ought industriously to avoid everything that may be an occasion of this sin, or a step towards it. Those that would keep out of harm must keep out of harm’s way.

3. We ought to be jealous over ourselves with a godly jealousy, and not be over-confident of the strength of our own resolutions.

4. Whatever has become a snare to us and an occasion of sin, we must part with at any cost (Matthew 5:28-30).

III. The arguments enforcing the caution. The mischiefs that attend this sin.

1. It blasts the reputation.

2. It wastes the time.

3. It ruins the estate.

4. It is destructive to the health.

5. It will fill the mind with terror, if ever conscience be awakened.

Solomon here brings in the convinced sinner reproaching himself and aggravating his own folly. He will then most bitterly lament it. (Matthew Henry.)

Proverbs 5:1-14

1 My son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding:

2 That thou mayest regard discretion, and that thy lips may keep knowledge.

3 For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her moutha is smoother than oil:

4 But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a twoedged sword.

5 Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

6 Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them.

7 Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth.

8 Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house:

9 Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel:

10 Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth;b and thy labours be in the house of a stranger;

11 And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,

12 And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

13 And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!

14 I was almost in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly.