If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
If any man come to me, and hate not his father ... he cannot be my disciple. And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple. See the notes at Matthew 10:37-38.